Hello, My name is Neil. I have returned to the church after many years of living in the world without Jesus in my life. I was once a member of the Church, but left after divorce. It was not a scriptural divorce so found myself disfellowshiped from the church. About 3 years ago i remarried a wonderful lady and converted her to Christ. She was baptized in the Christian or instrumental church and i went forward and repented and joined that church as well. My problem is i don't like the instrumental music so have tried to join two non instrumental churches in my area with the same results. They tell us we must divorce to be members of the church because we are living in sin. Help what can i do? I can't divorce my wonderful wife so are we doomed?