RJ,

I agree with Laura. It would seem that the burdon of proof would be upon you to prove that an elder's children are not required to be Christians. To me, the context simply will not allow any othe translation.

An elder is an older man. Now, how old is a good question. I am 34 and I have been approached about serving. I refused b/c as a young man, I felt unqualified in some areas. And my children are unproven. I would rather wait until I know more on my children than have to resign in shame at a later date.

Regarding younger elders (late 30s, early 40s), some may have grown or nearly grown kids who are members. They are certainly eligible, but what of those who have a mixture? For example, if we assume for the purpose of this discussion that I am qualified, then what of my four-year-old? In her own way, she is a "believer," but she is not a Christian. Should such a one serve?

Frankly, I don't have the answer. At what point does a "safe" child become an "unbeliever" in the sense that they are not immersed? The situation could be rather problematic.

Thoughts?